You're Not Dating Him...You're Dating His Woman

Posted by Antoinette R. Banks | Posted in | Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2010



Ladies, no one is really saying this…but I’ll just say…when you’re dating a man that’s involved with someone, you’re not dating him…you’re dating HIS WOMAN.

Now, take a deep breath and think about it.  AND I MEAN REALLY THINK ABOUT.  You feelin’ him because he compliments you? Because he knows how to tell you if your eyeshadow looks amazing? Because he says, “you wearing them shoes.”  The point is…he knows how to say certain things because HIS WOMAN has pointed them out. Because she has molded him into the perfect, articulate,  mature, well groomed man that you and your girlfriend’s  3-way call cuz you can’t believe he says (let me roll my eyes) all the right things.

As we get older, it seems we’re more desperate to not want to be alone.  But please, for the sake of REAL woman…stop messing with that taken man.  How dare you force yourself to believe, “baby, I only wear the ring to keep the chicken heads off.  I only want you,” knowing darn well you cringe every time the light reflects off it.  How dare you go get your vajayjay waxed just “in case” his needing a shoulder to lean on translates into needing a wet hole?

Stay strong ladies. Your days away from that special breakthrough that you need, just believe in yourself.  Mr. Right will come along...but only when you’re on your own individual path to success. 

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